I’ll be honest – I hate the lottery.
For starters, it implies that there’s an easy way out. It implies that life is going to suck unless we’re that one in a million person who had things “just work out.” I’ll stop here. It’s making me upset…I don’t like being upset.
Second, it implies that once we reach a certain point in our lives, then we’ll be happy.
I call bullshit on both these points. Especially the second one. Let’s talk about that.
I moved to Chicago to be an actor. These days I spend more time at my promotional job and working from home coaching others with their health goals. I don’t neglect acting, but I certainly spend more time in the other two areas. Once I have more time for acting (and trust me, that’s coming), I’ll definitely be happier. However, time is not the only indicator on whether or not acting makes me happy.
If you’re a member of the Thriving Artist Circle, you know that Dallas Travers does one-on-one coaching calls each month. More recently, she and Roz Coleman were coaching actors on their goals – and it wasn’t at all what I was used to. I was used to the “do what you need to do to be a fulltime actor.” With this call, it emphasized being an actor and doing the type of work that you truly and honestly love to do.
*Record screech* Wait, wait? I thought being a fulltime actor was the answer?
Being a fulltime actor would be fun because it would mean less time working JOBs and working on what we’re truly good at. Now let’s fast forward to that magical day where acting pays all the bills: What is it about acting that excites you?
-Is it sharing a message to others that they wouldn’t have otherwise learned through your work?
-Is it telling stories in a specific way?
-Is it the process of dissecting a script and getting to know your character?
Because of it’s any of those , I got some follow up questions for ya:
-Will doing industrials for corporate companies help with this?
-Will doing film work – where I have little to no rehearsal time – help satisfy my passion for character work?
-Is that one liner role on Chicago Fire going to satisfy my need for dissecting a script?
This isn’t to say that the answer will be no. In fact, my dream job is to be a full time theatre actor. Yet all three of those examples are jobs that I would gladly take.
Tony stops writing for a moment to see if he had any missed calls/emails about said work.
…Sorry. Anyway, the point is to focus on what you do want and how you do want to feel. I recommend focusing on those things now, prior to that magical day where you have financial freedom and can do whatever you want.
If you watched my facebook video earlier this week, you say that it breaks my heart seeing people working jobs they hate. Life is too short. Go after what you love. And be sure it is, in fact, what you love.
Speaking of which…love you guys. Thanks for reading.
Go get ‘em.
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