“TONY. WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME ABOUT THE NEW YEAR?!”
Relax. I’m going somewhere (positive) with this….
Empowering thoughts:
- 2018 will have setbacks. Buckle up 😉 (Sorry…that wasn’t empowering…)
- 2018 will also have beauty. Keep your eyes open so you don’t miss it.
- You are absolutely allowed to find beauty in your setbacks
- Just because you’ve never done something before that a lot of others have been doing who are a lot (older than you, younger than you, etc) doesn’t mean you can’t start exactly where you are
- Sometimes things can be a lot easier than they seem
Thoughts for my single friends:
- Being single allows you time for things you might not have if you were in a relationship. Enjoy them while knowing that it won’t stay this way.
- Please…you can find a new boyfriend without making a bunch of physical changes. Stop reading blogs that tell you otherwise.
- List five reasons you’d make an amazing partner. Consider how many people currently in relationships aren’t getting those qualities from their significant other. You get to give those to someone.
Goal thoughts
- Sometimes the hardest part that you’ve been dreading for so long won’t be nearly as bad as you make them out to be in your head
- Ten years from now, you’ll probably have achieved a lot of your goals. And you’ll wonder why you wasted so much time freaking out.
- Don’t be so hard on yourself that you stop enjoying the journey.
- There are going to be parts you look back on fondly that will surprise you
Setbacks:
- Your situation that’s happening right now is just that – it’s happening now. That doesn’t make it permanent.
- You’re hard on yourself because you care. Be proud that you care.
- Sometimes that negative voice in your head will get very loud. That doesn’t make it true. Volume does not equal truth.
- Your week might start out with six bad days, but that seventh awesome day will make everything worth it.
- You don’t have to be happy right now. But keep the flame of hope alive for when you’re ready to get back up
And a Tony thought for you…..
- YOU ARE AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL, AND CAPABLE OF GREATNESS EXACTLY AS YOU ARE AND WHERE YOU ARE.
“Start where you are, with what you have – because what you have is plenty enough.” -Eric Thomas.
I’m #notperfect. But if you’re reading this, I’m guessing you’re not either. Why not try something empowering instead of disempowering this week – or hell, this year??
Thank you for reading – whether it’s your first time or one hundredth. I’m grateful for you. You deserve to feel amazing. Go after what you love.
Let’s go get ‘em, friends.
PS – Thanks to all of you who did make 2017 so memorable 🙂
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By the way, I’m Tony. I live in Chicago. (Duh.) I’m an actor and blogger living right up the street from Wrigley Field.
My blog is here to help others take control and live a more authentically positive life on their terms. Since working with a coach and learning more about personal development, I’ve started sharing my learnings with others. (I have a lot…)
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